Originally Posted By: wag123
Originally Posted By: madRiver
Originally Posted By: wag123
If you can find one at a reasonable price, a Toyota RAV4 V/6 AWD would be my recommendation. It is reliable and durable, it is relatively cheap to maintain, it is roomy and comfortable but not too big, and has plenty of power for what you need. Another very good choice would be an older Highlander 3.3L or 3.5L V/6 AWD.
Toyota has admitted issues with the RAV4 in the vintage you speak of related to AWD. My sister got handed a $2400 repair estimate for an AWD (diff) replacement and went to Honda dealer and traded it in for a CRV. I believe she was 1k miles or a month over the extended warranty on this very fault Toyota put service campaign on.
https://www.toyoheadquarters.com/threads...on-lsc-zf4.554/
Honda has had problems with the rear differentials in the AWD CR-Vs as well. The diff fluid needs to be changed regularly if you want to avoid having problems with them. In the CR-V forums, owners recommend that the fluid should be changed every 20k miles. Make sure you tell your sister about this.
I have been following the maintenance minder on my wife's 2008 CR-V since new. My differential fluid change code comes up every third oil change, which equates to every 30k miles for my driving habits. The car now has 145k and I have not had any issues with the rear differential. Takes me about an extra 30 minutes to dump the diff fluid and refill it. If I had a lift it would take as long to put it on the lift as it would to change the fluid.