I have no position. It's another item (along with many) that was changed recently that some people have a concern with. That's all.What's with the coded language? If you have something to say, say it.
I have no position. It's another item (along with many) that was changed recently that some people have a concern with. That's all.What's with the coded language? If you have something to say, say it.
Once they went PC and chose to appease a tiny, angry portion of the population while turning their back on the very folks that they are there to support, I was out. Now instead of wanting to help out, I just kindly say "No thank you". They made their bed....After they started admitting females, it was over for me.
Exactly.......Once they went PC and chose to appease a tiny, angry portion of the population while turning their back on the very folks that they are there to support, I was out. Now instead of wanting to help out, I just kindly say "No thank you". They made their bed....
so, if i understand correctly, the girls have both girl scouts and boy scouts, and the boys have just boy scouts? why? indeed i’m out of touch, probably just as well…Again, Scouts BSA is not "coed". The boys and girls are segregated into single sex troops. What is new is that girls now have access to the same experiences and possibilities as boys. Adding girl troops doesn't change the experience for boys in Scouting at all. It's as if a school allowed girls to have their own soccer team. The boys might need to share the pitch now and then, but that's it.
This is true. However, those two organizations are not affiliated with each other, despite the similar sounding names.so, if i understand correctly, the girls have both girl scouts and boy scouts, and the boys have just boy scouts? why? indeed i’m out of touch, probably just as well…
I remember our Troop #79 having Pancake Breakfasts at church. Very popular. I enjoyed that.A long time ago when I was a Boy Scout we did the breakfasts after church. We cooked and cleaned up. We also sold Christmas trees. It was more of a working environment rather than a selling one.
Very well written post.My summary of why I don't support Scouting, and haven't for quite a while ...
Strike 1:
the insane manner of making it more about money than the kids; the sales of stuff (typically popcorn, but not always). When parents are the backdoor avenue to the sales by taking these forms to work to fill out the order sheet(s), that's not kids do anything for themselves. It's not about the kids; it's about the money. Some would argue that without the money, the program dies; they are not wrong. But it's gone way too far IMO.
Strike 2:
the inane and obscure merit badges now available to the kids (here is just a sampling):
- animation
- chess
- coin collecting
- fingerprinting
- gaming (video games)
- movie making
- skating
All of these "skills" are not core to becoming a good citizen, or teach an essential life skill. Some of these could lead to a job some day, but they are a nod towards a major shift in the softening of the Scouts. Rather than getting out of your comfort zone and interacting by developing people skills, or actually doing a worthy social project, why not just sit at home and doodle some cartoons, stick coins in a sleeve, or play video games? Some of these could lead to a job/career, but really how many kids make a living skating or playing chess? These "merit" badges are a nod to broadening the appeal of Scouting, because frankly Scouting was becoming more and more difficult to get kids interested in. So rather than help kids understand need for core life and social interaction skills, they just watered down the program so that intraverts and hobbies could be accomodated, thereby keeping the headcount up in Scouting. Where's the "merit" of learning video gaming? Is there kid alive today that didn't already have that mastered before ever joining Scouts? So did they "learn" anything by "earning" that "merit" badge? Did they develop into a better person by getting a coin-collecting badge?
Strike 3:
the PC approach to everything. (I will avoid discussing the sensitivity and details of the topics and just say that I don't subscribe to wokeness in any form). The Scouts captiulated to pressure rather than standing their ground on multiple levels. What's the life lesson here for the kids? Give in to peer pressure rather than holding fast to your beliefs? Yeah - like we need more of that message imparted to future generations ...
For a long time at work they allowed the parent to bring their kids in and ambush us at our desks while we worked. I can't tell you how enraged that made me and a few others, they no longer allow that but do let them bring in the order sheets which I also ignore.When parents are the backdoor avenue to the sales by taking these forms to work to fill out the order sheet(s), that's not kids do anything for themselves.
While skills that will save her money. These are not life skills-IMHO.My son’s previous pack (he’s moved onto a troop) stopped selling popcorn and replaced it with a program where they set up and take down American Flags for a fee. I believe this allows more money to stay within the pack.
I am far more likely to help an organization where more money stays local, for example, the local thrift store that benefits senior citizens in my city vs. the Goodwill.
In my son’s pack, there were fairly frequent camping trips, however a lot changed since I was a Cub Scout (1989-95). Currently, parents have to transport their own children on trips and tent/stay with them. That was certainly not the case when I was a child. Now there’s a lot of training that goes on for parents involved in scouting, as well as specific policies to ensure children are protected, as was mentioned in an earlier post.
As to girls in the BSA… I was originally put off by the idea, as Girl Scouts already exists. However, after talking to a fellow Scout dad who put his daughter in Cub Scouts, I could see the reasoning. His son was doing camping trips, learning about survival and first aid, home improvement, auto maintenance, and building useful items, while his daughter in Girl Scouts was making crafts/doing home ec., and selling cookies. I’m pretty old fashioned for someone born in 1982, but if I had a daughter, I’d be teaching her to change tires, oil, etc.
I too find it borderline offensive when those nasty too much time on their hands “moms” are selling the items for their rugrats. The kids are supposed to be doing the work, not the moms.A lady yelled at me for ignoring pleas to buy cookies from the Girls Scouts that were set up at the front door of the local Walmart Supercenter. I had to bite my tongue. I really want to go back and say, "you have to change your business model. Send three kids over and to my house down the street and pick up twigs and rake my yard and Ill give you 20 bucks. Selling garbage food products marked sky high isn't cutting it, Lady. Do something teachable and useful; selling cookies doesn't teach anything In fact its S-L-I-M-E-Y
Pet peeve. rant over for now
Good post! I’m totally and completely anti politically correct. I will never do anything to appease a certain group.My summary of why I don't support Scouting, and haven't for quite a while ...
Strike 1:
the insane manner of making it more about money than the kids; the sales of stuff (typically popcorn, but not always). When parents are the backdoor avenue to the sales by taking these forms to work to fill out the order sheet(s), that's not kids do anything for themselves. It's not about the kids; it's about the money. Some would argue that without the money, the program dies; they are not wrong. But it's gone way too far IMO.
Strike 2:
the inane and obscure merit badges now available to the kids (here is just a sampling):
- animation
- chess
- coin collecting
- fingerprinting
- gaming (video games)
- movie making
- skating
All of these "skills" are not core to becoming a good citizen, or teach an essential life skill. Some of these could lead to a job some day, but they are a nod towards a major shift in the softening of the Scouts. Rather than getting out of your comfort zone and interacting by developing people skills, or actually doing a worthy social project, why not just sit at home and doodle some cartoons, stick coins in a sleeve, or play video games? Some of these could lead to a job/career, but really how many kids make a living skating or playing chess? These "merit" badges are a nod to broadening the appeal of Scouting, because frankly Scouting was becoming more and more difficult to get kids interested in. So rather than help kids understand need for core life and social interaction skills, they just watered down the program so that intraverts and hobbies could be accomodated, thereby keeping the headcount up in Scouting. Where's the "merit" of learning video gaming? Is there kid alive today that didn't already have that mastered before ever joining Scouts? So did they "learn" anything by "earning" that "merit" badge? Did they develop into a better person by getting a coin-collecting badge?
Strike 3:
the PC approach to everything. (I will avoid discussing the sensitivity and details of the topics and just say that I don't subscribe to wokeness in any form). The Scouts captiulated to pressure rather than standing their ground on multiple levels. What's the life lesson here for the kids? Give in to peer pressure rather than holding fast to your beliefs? Yeah - like we need more of that message imparted to future generations ...