From what I've read, distribution voltage is typically 3.3kV-25kV in the US. This is what hits the "point of use" where the step down transformer on the pole drops it down to the voltage the customer needs.
Most common in the USA (at least in terms of square miles served) is 12.47/7.2kV wye, and transformers are usually connected phase-to-neutral (7.2kV) This is the Rural Electrification Administration standard which I believe was set in the 1930s.
In big cities (Chicago, New York) you often find distribution voltages lower than 7.2kV, from what I've heard, and they also may use delta where there is no neutral (on the primary side) and the transformer is connected phase to phase.
Suburbs and rural areas are more likely to be 7.2kV. EDIT: And they often don't have all 3 phases run down the street, instead getting only a single phase. Which means 3 phase service is not an option.
And there are places that use a distribution voltage higher than 7.2kV, but this isn't as common.
A bit of trivia: A transformer designed to be connected phase-to-neutral is cheaper than one designed to be connected phase-to-phase, because in addition to not needing an additional bushing (the insulator sticking out the top where the primary is connected), they don't need to be fully voltage-rated since one end of the primary coil is at 0V potential.