From the Pilot forums I'm on, the 9 speed has had lots of discussion (piloteers dot org). Variable Cylinder Managment has been known to be problematic, but there are options to disable it. I've not personally had the oil consumption issues with VCM, but it does feel like weird gear shifts at times, and the motor mounts have to deal with the VCM. My Pilot tows my 2000 pound camper with no trouble.
The ones SeaJay refers to would probably be dissing the El Camino and the Ranchero too. I like the looks of the Ridgeline, but I don't have much use for a pickup myself.