Indy, thank you for posting this UOA. I generally agree with the notion of changing FF oil "early", within some reasonable timeframe, but then you look at the UOA just posted from that 2011 Honda Fit and the FF UOA (ran 10,000 miles) looks better than many broken-in UOAs, so I don't know what the "right" answer is.
Honda's V-6 engine does seem to be harder on the oil than most of their I-4 engines, and the 6 uses a timing belt (which is supposed to be easier on the oil than a chain). I don't know what's fundamentally different about the V-6 engines that apparently stress the oil more, but I am curious.
For what it's worth, I've tried a number of oils in our MDX's V-6, which is extremely similar to what you have, save for the VCM, and I've decided that Mobil 1 0W-20 is what I'm using in it. It just seems to run best on that oil, not in terms of power or MPG, but in terms of NVH. Not related, but I also changed the oil in the CR-V this weekend and used Mobil 1 0W-20 and believe that's what I'll stick with in the CR-V as well.