DIYiT- Boy, if you weren't running around in circles, hair afire, before reading this thread, maybe you were after! ( : < )
I agree that you should run a 3K OCI this time with the oil you have, resample, and go to an HDEO 5W40. Sample that in 3K too and you'll soon see what's what. This ain't a great UOA, but it doesn't necessarily signify immanent death either.
The HDEOs are very good at cleaning without using and other additives. Plus, they are very good at holding stuff in suspension until it can be filtered. Overall, I think your engine would be fine with a 10W30, in spite of the miles, but since you live in the north, and the 5W and 0W30 HDEO oils are so expensive, the 5W40 oil will help your cold starts. There are ways to objectively determine if your engine needs a heavier oil, but you have enough complications as it is now and the 5W40 covers a broad range of temps.