Scott, JMO, but I tend to simplify things. You are spot on; alcohol was my Jones and I tried all kinds of things.Although I agree with @alarmguy post - and yours @JeffKeryk but.....some things are more addictive to some than others. Unlike you, alcohol has no additive power over me.
But I know people called "puffers", people who have a few hits of weed a half dozen times a day. In other words, they are high all day long. They're unable to stop, making weed their version of your alcohol.
My vice back in the college days was cocaine. That stuff was savagely addictive to me. I could study ALL NIGHT LONG on that stuff. Play nights with coeds could last ALL NIGHT LONG. There's nothing better than a coked up chick.
Thank God it almost killed me one night. Fortunately I had enough self awareness that almost dying of a heart attack made me come to my senses. I still remember sitting in a chair in this downtown Victorian, a booming party surrounding me, my heart rate spinning out of control at probably 200bpm - and being so out of touch with reality I just sat there and didn't ask anyone for help. Instead, I sat there in wide-eyed terror for three hours thinking I was just moments from death.
Here's the irony, there was a movement to legalize coke back in the '70s. Too bad it wasn't. The taxes generated from it could have rebuilt our entire electrical grid, much like @Hermann says the taxes generated by legalized weed is rebuilding i-70 throughout his state.
I find it troubling that we live in a nation that legalizes NEW vices for the tax revenue. Maybe one day I'll get my old '70s wish that cocaine will be legalized. That'll fix things.
Scott
The way I see it is, many roads lead to hell. Pick your road.
Finally, the only person I have a problem using, drinking, whatever, is me. I don't pretend to understand other's lives.