We have a 15 wrangler, and16 Cherokee both with pentastar engines. Both over 130000 miles. Just routine maintenance and they run like new. Wouldn’t hesitate to buy the Durango. Only pia is changing the air filter.
People with V6 are very happy with their choice. My 15 wrangler is pushing 150000 miles. Mostly by daughter. No issues, no engine repairs. In the ram, you would be hard pressed to tell the difference between the 4.7 and and the V6 power wise.
I’m a ram truck guy, but from the info given, I’d be looking closely at GM with the duramax, unless it’s going to see a lot of short trips, than he’ll need a gasser.
Out of your list, I would get the Wrangler. I find them reliable, fun and more versatile than a car. I get the V6 with auto and skip the turbo. My 16 has 150000 miles and still runs well. Have only had to do maintenance, no repairs yet. The new ones have e/ torque and in the past the battery has...