You want to clear the "swarf", micro-abrasive particles which are a natural result of break-in. Sounds like a healthy schedule. Absolutely at 500, and also would switch to 0-W20 to be safe. 5000 mile changes thereafter, 10k is a nono.
Ill get my own hands dirty for simple stuff, oil change etc. Forget stealership service junk. I have a trusted local, certified shop which does the job right, they have let me bring my own Rockauto parts. No issues, done once and done right and they will show yoi what they are doing. Don't get...